I'm trying to look for the GLOSSY SHINY OEM BLACK GRILLE. (The one that is shiny on the 04-05 EP3) but according to Honda there is 2 kinds. Which one is the shinny one?

There is this one for the 04-05 EP3:
GRILLE, FR. *NH655M* (TYPE-R) AVANT-GARDE GRAY

http://www.hondaautomotiveparts.com/...5=FRONT+GRILLE

AND

This one for the 02-03 EP3:
GRILLE, FR. *NH544M* (TYPE R) GUNMETAL COOL BLACK METALLIC

http://www.hondaautomotiveparts.com/...5=FRONT+GRILLE